My Crushing Break Up

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So recently I made a personal decision about something from my past.

My friends daughter was gearing up for the prom and she really wanted to wear something Indian. (She’s not Indian but has always loved its colors and influence).

So naturally she asked if I had anything she could wear that I didn’t use anymore. (Since it would have to be altered to fit her daughter).

When she described what type of outfit she was looking for, I looked through my closet and found the perfect thing.

The only issue being it was one of my outfits from my wedding. It was a beautiful ornate, silk gown and I knew my mom had spent a lot of money on it. But most importantly, it was from my wedding. (Granted that was two sizes ago…but still!)

Although I was reluctant for a few days, I ended up giving it to her with pleasure.

And even for a “simplifying” gal like me, it wasn’t easy to let go of something that meant so much to me.

Do you find yourself in situations like this too? Struggling to decide if you should hold onto things from your past?

After years of practicing purging, I still find it difficult to let go of certain items – even though I know I have no use for them or don’t even remember having them.

If you can relate, I’d love for you to watch today’s video about letting go. I tell you about three ways I’ve learned to separate my past from my present, which always leaves me feeling lighter and with more freedom.

When you’re done watching, here’s the action that will help you feel the same way too.

Let me know about one item you’ve been holding, that you’re ready to let go of. Remember, putting it out there is your first step in making it happen.

You are such a rockstar for watching, commenting and taking actions to improve your life. Go get ’em Lifer!

To your awesome future,
Mridu

P.S.
If you want to learn more secrets to “letting go” and kicking clutter to the curb (without feeling overwhelmed) – Hallelujah! – then be sure to check out Power House Ultimate. It’s downright transformational….not to mention fun! (And I’ve included a new payment plan).

12 Comments

Charu

I guess it’s time for me to let go of old jewelry. I have a lot of pieces that don’t work for me anymore. Oh and the wedding clothes! Yep I have a suitcase full of them. But I need to find someone who wants it.

Diana

I’ve been hanging onto an old faux fox jacket of my mothers who passed away 22 years ago I guess it’s time to let it go.

Mridu

Those are my two exact things that I have a hard time letting go too Charu. My jewelry and wedding clothes. (Us Indians have so much of both! LOL!) But honestly, it felt SO good to give it to someone knowing they would get so much pleasure out of it. Maybe you could take your old Indian clothes and get new, up-to-date outfits made for your girls with the fabric? Just a thought. 🙂 xo, mridu

Mridu

I know, Diana – it’s tough. But holding on doesn’t make the person or moment come back. And take ease in knowing that you’ll never lose the memory of your mom in that jacket. I’m proud of you friend! xo, m

Karen

I have been holding onto all of my dress shirts. They are too large and outdated. I realized they were they last items my mom ironed for me before she passed away. My son came home and showed me the photo he snapped of my mom and I laughing in the laundry room – there was the memory! Thank you for helping me move forward.

Dalene

Old T-shirts that are from a trip or not showing too much wear is taking up space. I now am recycling them and have good memories. They are being cut into strips and crocheted into a new rug for the bathroom! The scraps are trashed.

Mridu

That’s beautiful Karen. I love that you have photos of your mom and you, so happy together. Proud of you for letting go physically, knowing you’re holding on to your memories (emotionally). Love your spirit! xo, m

Mridu

Ok, that is SO creative! (Which means it’s something I could never do! LOL!) Great way to “use your memories” in a productive and meaningful way. Thanks so much for sharing your inspiration Dalene. xo, mridu

Monica

I got rid of two whole totes of maternity clothes! So awesome to be able to give then to a friend!

Mridu

FANTASTIC Monica!! Way to take action. Thanks for sharing! xo, m

Cynthia dunbar

I had gastric bypass 15 yrs ago when I was 422 lbs and have been 145 or less for the last 14 yrs I still think I am a size 16-18 or XL when in reality I’m a 10-12. So I finally got rid of all of my fat clothes and went to the thrift shop and bought some right sized clothes. It’s been so liberating to finally say goodbye to that old life style — even if it did take 13 yrs to do it. Our minds never catch up to our bodies when we have an eating disorder. Praise God for friends who love you enough to gently restore you to reality!!

Mridu Parikh

Cynthia, what an amazing story. And congratulations on all your success and liberation. So many of us are holding on to clothes and sizes that are too small for us. Thanks for the reminder that there’s so much freedom in letting go what’s too big for you too. Love your story. Thanks so much for sharing it with us. xo,m

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