Want to feel more in control? Stop doing these 3 things.

You know those days where you’re working nonstop but still feel like you didn’t do anything?

You showed up, stayed busy, and crossed things off…

But somehow, your brain is fried, your to-do list is untouched, and you feel behind on what really matters.

Yep. Been there.

And it’s so defeating.

Video gif. Lauren Lapkus throws her hands up to her temples and cries, “Whyyyyyyy?”

Here’s what I’ve learned after years of helping professionals take control of their time:

Productivity isn’t just about what you do.

It’s about what you stop doing.

If you’re craving more clarity, momentum, and peace in your day, hit pause on these 3 things that quietly steal your time and energy.


Thing #1: Stop Getting Bossed Around By Your Phone

Every ping, buzz, and banner drags you away from what matters.

It lures you into a spiral of half-finished thoughts and scattered energy.

You don’t mean to give your phone that kind of power…but here we are. AGAIN.

So here’s the power move:

Turn. It. Off.

  • Silence the alerts.
  • Disable the badges.
  • Hit pause on your inbox.
  • Shut down the apps that keep sucking you in.

You don’t need more willpower.

You need fewer interruptions.

Take 60 seconds to clean up the noise, and watch how fast your clarity returns.

Seriously, change just one thing on your phone to limit the distractions. Just one.

You can dooooooo it!


Thing #2. Stop Falling into the Email Void

You get 15 free minutes between meetings.
Your 1:00 cancels.
You finish a task early.

And what’s the default move?

“Just check email.”

Before you know it, you’ve spent 40 minutes reacting to everyone else’s agenda while your own priorities sit untouched.

Here’s the fix:
Schedule time for email.

Good news! You’re already a pro at this. You schedule meetings and doctor appointments…you can do this too.

  • Maybe you schedule email four times a day.
  • Maybe it’s 20 minutes after every deep work session.
  • Maybe it’s 10 minutes every hour.

There’s only one wrong way to do it.

And that’s to not do it at all.

Make a decision and put it on the calendar.

Otherwise, email becomes the easy fallback every time you feel uncertain, unmotivated, or overwhelmed.

Which, let’s face it, is All. The. Time.


Thing #3. Stop Relying on Your Memory

You’ll remember to follow up with that client.
You won’t forget to call the plumber.
You’ll totally remember to send that doc before the meeting.

Until…you don’t.

Your brain was made for creativity and problem-solving, not for storing a million open loops.

So stop overloading it.

Get things out of your head and into a trusted system.

A notebook. A task app. A spreadsheet. Sticky notes, if you must.

The point is to release the mental clutter so you can focus on what matters…

…Without that nagging “I’m forgetting something…” feeling lurking in the background.

Be obsessive about getting thoughts out of your brain.


The Bottom Line

These might sound like small shifts, but they create big wins:

More peace. More progress. More ownership of your day.

You don’t need a total overhaul.

Just a few intentional changes to feel back in control.

You’ve got too much brilliance to waste it on distractions and overwhelm.

So, which one will you commit to first?

  • Will you finally silence those notifications?
  • Protect your email time?
  • Start writing it all down?

Let me know in a quick reply, and let’s get you back in the driver’s seat.

With love,
Mridu

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Mridu Parikh

I help time-strapped go-getters who are overwhelmed by their demands and distractions, get more time and feel less stressed. I'm Mridu Parikh, Productivity Coach, Consultant, & Author. If you want to focus your time and energy on what matters most, you've come to the right place.

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