If you feel totally distracted, you’ll love this

I recently had an epiphany.Our foyer desperately needs wallpaper.Like, how could we have gone this long with barren walls? Why didn’t any of our friends tell us how sub-par our entrance was? Has the UPS guy been traumatized for years by this ghastly oversight?It is my new obsession.Soooo, as I sat down yesterday with my…

oh no he didn’t! (yes, he did)

“What is that?“My hubby did a double-take as he walked by my 16-year-old’s room.“What?” as if my son had no idea what he was talking about.There he lay with a brand new flat screen tv propped up on a folding table at the end of his bed.“Oh that. Mom said I could get anything I want.”Let’s…

Why I wasn’t promoted. Is this your issue too?

I didn’t suck up enough. I didn’t hang around the right people. I didn’t play the political game. That’s what I told myself when I got passed up for a promotion. Before starting my biz I spent 12 years in marketing and advertising agencies working on multi-million dollar accounts with companies like Amex, Mercedes, and…

This Can Leave You In Mediocrity

Not too long ago prior to a speaking event, I spent hours perfecting my slides. Actually it was more like days. Seriously, I spent painstakingly long agonizing colors and line spacing. I made slews of changes perfecting text and images. Which of course meant I neglected some of my other important work at that time….

What To Do When You’re Feeling Anxious

It’s hard to make sense of one heartbreaking crisis after another.No surprise you might be feeling more anxiety than ever.Which is why I want to address two simple ways to truly ground yourself.I use these myself and with my clients during “normal times” and they’re even more needed.HEADS UP: They are easy which means they…

Stop Relying On This To Plan Your Day

“I know what I need to do, but it just doesn’t seem to get done.” I’ve been having a lot of conversations lately about managing demands and priorities. Chances are you know what you need to accomplish too. Those emails, that presentation, this form. But the day flies by and you’re kicking yourself for barely…

Do You Know What Makes You Happy?

I might be more introverted than I thought. Although I totally miss socializing, I’m enjoying my time at home. I think it’s because life is simpler. Not running around like a crazy person, from event to activity to meeting to place, morning until evening. Also, as I get older I’m more selective about how I…

A Big Reason You Procrastinate…And How To Solve It

Even the highest performers deal with the big P, the mac daddy of putting things off, the grand excuse of them all…procrastination. It doesn’t matter where you live, how old you are, what your job is, there are simply things we just don’t want to do.  Why? Well, let’s begin with defining what procrastination is….

Why Multitasking Can Make You Stupid

Like many ambitious people, you probably take great pride in being a multitasker. You send an email, talk on your phone, check the market, and take meeting notes all at the same time …or so you think. As a multitasking expert, you believe the more you react to, the more productive you are. As the…

Unlocking The Truth About This Giant Myth

I used to be an addict. No matter how hard I tried, I could not resist the urge nor could I fight the temptation. I went to bed planning for it. I woke up dreaming about it. I even scheduled my days around it. I’m talking about coffee, of course. What were you thinking? 😉…